In the midst of ongoing debates about gender within Christian denominations, a lingering sense of stalemate prevails. Despite the presence of well-intentioned individuals and compelling arguments on both sides, the prospects for a unified understanding or even a productive exchange of ideas seem bleak. Enter John Stackhouse, who boldly proposes a path forward in this concise yet impactful volume. Stackhouse presents a multifaceted case, drawing on biblical, theological, and practical insights to articulate a nuanced perspective: while equality represents the ultimate biblical ideal, patriarchy is tolerated and regulated by a sovereign God who prioritizes the broader purposes of the kingdom. Characterized by its refreshing candor and uncommon clarity, Finally Feminist is poised to revitalize the gender conversation within the church, fostering a deeper and more thoughtful exploration of this complex issue.